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and I mean that in the plural noun sense, not the singular verb sense.
So far, it’s been a good Christmas, especially for our first one as foster parents. I certainly hope there are many more, but this one has been mostly a success.
One of the biggest problems is due to the fact that Mark and Nikki’s relatives provided two big sacks of gifts for them. Some problem, huh? It was quite a blessing. However, their family, it seems, does the traditional ‘open-everything-at-once’ on the 25th. And then Christmas is over. Husband and I decided several years ago to spread out the present opening over the whole Christmas season, a la The Twelve Days of Christmas.
(We still haven’t gotten a satisfactory answer on when Christmas officially ends. It seems there are three big choices: Jan. 6 (Epiphany), the Sunday after (Baptism of Christ) or Feb. 2 (Candlemas), depending on your denomination.)
Anyway, it’s usually worked for us. But with Mark and Nikki’s presents, things have gotten off-balance. I unwrapped and checked their presents, but then I rewrapped them, so I don’t know what they will be each morning until they open them. That came to a head on Saturday, when Nikki unwrapped socks and shoes, Mark unwrapped two pairs of shoes, and Junior got a cool dinosaur fighting toy. Yeah, I don’t blame them for having green eyes and grumbling voices.
So I guess I’ll either have everyone open all their presents, or I’ll have to try and give my kids lame presents too. It’s all a bit complicated for me; I like Christmas to be as simple as I can make it, and this is just not working like it usually does. But I really like my Christmas traditions! Whaaa whaaa…
Oh, and one more minor fail: this morning, Nikki unwrapped Battleship (the game). An odd choice for a 5-year old girl, yes? I thought so too when I checked it, but I’m not here to question their choices, so I let it go. It just occurred to me they probably mislabeled it, and it was supposed to be Mark’s, which also makes sense because Nikki has 3 extra presents.

